Relationship Counselling / Marriage Guidance with Daren & Anna

- Covering London, West Essex, South Hertfordshire -

Buckhurst Hill IG9 or central London

Why Choose Us? 4 Good Reasons

• We are unique because we work as a couple with you as a couple. This means that both of you will feel related to and understood by a person of the same gender during our sessions.
• We have completed a specialised diploma in couples counselling and relationship psychodynamics. Some counsellors simply add relationship counselling to their basic counselling portfolio. Without specialised training, they are courting disaster, as they have little understanding of the powerful dynamics of relationship. We have this understanding! We are also in regular supervision for our relationship counselling practice.
• We are professional mediators, used to working with people in conflict with one another. Your relationship conflicts and problems won’t phase us!
• We are also Nonviolent Communication practitioners and trainers, skilled at translating the blame, judgement and criticism that so often occur in relationships into more friendly language that you and your partner can hear, and we can teach you to do this yourselves!

Relationship Counselling - How will we work with you?

• Share your experiences and have them received by your partner.
• Connect to the feelings and needs underlying your experiences.
• Understand the dynamics that are driving your relationship problems.
• Envision together a future as a couple better than the present.
• Explore what you each would be willing and happy to do in your relationship to co-create this future.

Practicalities

Session length: In our experience, 90 mins is the best length for couples counselling  sessions.  We are also open to sessions of 60 mins or 120 mins if that would suit you better.
Frequency: We suggest an initial session together, during which we can get a sense of the dynamics and problems occuring in your relationship, and you can get a sense of whether our approach works for you.  If you want further sessions, we suggest weekly or fortnightly sessions, according to your preference and the urgency of your relationship problems.  We also offer ongoing relationship coaching sessions, typically monthly or bi-monthly, to help you to maintain your relationship.
Cost per session: Contact us to discuss costs.
Location: We run our counselling from two locations.  One is our home which is located in Buckhurst Hill, in northeast London. We can also arrange a couples counselling session for you in a central London venue, where there is an extra charge for room hire. Our home is located near Buckhurst Hill underground station, on the central line, zone 5 (30 mins from Tottenham Court Rd underground station). By car, we are near the A406 (10 mins from Leytonstone / Woodford exit) and M25 (10 mins from junction 26). See the bottom of this page for more information about travelling times to us.

Interested in Relationship Counselling?

If you would like to book a relationship counselling session or talk this over further, please contact Anna or Daren by emailing us, filling in the enquiry form on the right of this page or phoning us on the number in the top right hand box.

About Us

Daren De Witt and Anna Finlayson bring many skills to this work. We have completed a two-year specialist training in Couple Counselling and Relationship Psychotherapy, graduating with Diplomas in Creative Couplework with the Centre for Gender Psychology, with whom we are in regular supervision. We have also studied the Voice Dialogue approach to relationship problems. We have 9 years experience of practising and teaching Nonviolent Communication, and 10 years experience as mediators and mediation trainers. We have been in a relationship together for 13 years, which adds to the depth of experience we bring as a couple to our relationship counselling.

We also run regular relationship workshops. Go to our Relationship Workshops page for more information.

Our Relationship Counselling / Marriage Guidance Venues

Travel times to our Buckhurst Hill relationship counselling practice by car

Abridge:

Arnos Grove:

Bank:

Barnet:

Bethnal Green:

Bishop's Stortford:

Bow:

Brentwood:

Broxbourne:

Buckhurst Hill:

Chelmsford:

Cheshunt:

Chigwell:

Chingford:

Cuffley:

Debden:

East Ham:

Edmonton:

Enfield:

Epping:

Epping Forest:

Epping Green:

Goffs Oak:

Harlow:

Hainault:

Hatfield:

Hertford:

Highams Park:

Hoddesdon:

Kings Langley:

Lambourne End:

Leyton:

Leytonstone:

Liverpool St:

London Colney:

Loughton:

Manor Park:

North Weald:

Ongar:

Palmers Green:

Potters Bar:

Redbridge:

Rickmansworth:

Roydon:

Snaresbrook:

South Woodford:

St Albans:

Stapleford Abbotts:

Stapleford Tawney:

Stratford:

Theydon Bois:

Tottenham:

Upshire:

Waltham Abbey:

Waltham Cross:

Wanstead:

Ware:

Watford:

Welwyn Garden City:

Whipps Cross:

Wood Green:

Woodford:

Woodford Bridge:

Woodford Green:

Travel times to our relationship counselling practice by tube

Loughton:

Debden:

Theydon Bois:

Epping:

Woodford:

South Woodford:

Snaresbrook:

Leytonstone:

Leyton:

Stratford:

Mile End:

Bethnal Green:

Liverpool St:

Bank:

St Pauls:

Chancery Lane:

Holborn:

Tottenham Court Rd:

Oxford Circus:

Bond St:

Canary Wharf: